Friday, October 18, 2013

Let's Be Honest, Folks....

As I have pointed out, several times, there has been a lot said about the case of the transgender male in a Colorado high school who has been accused of harassing female students.  Much has been made about how "inaccurate" the news stories were.  I disagree.  I think they raised valid points, and that the reaction from the transgender extremists simply illustrates the true nature of the problem.

The Pacific Justice Institute issued a statement in which they said, "a trans person in the restroom is 'inherently intimidating and harassing.'"  I think that statement, as written, is somewhat flawed.  First off, the words "trans person" are very vague.  I imagine they might well, for example, include me in that, and yet, I use the restroom regularly without intimidating or harassing anyone.  Further, I do not identify as a "trans person."

And, some who might properly be identified as a "trans person" and who might self-identify as such would also be able to use the restroom without being "intimidating and harassing."  But, I would completely agree if it were reworded as, "a trans person in the restroom can be inherently intimidating and harassing."  

What would make a difference? Why is this true in a case like the one in Colorado, but not, perhaps in other cases?  The answer is simple.  In the case in Colorado, there has been no real attempt on the part of the student to assimilate as a female.  He is, as they say, "out, loud, and proud."  This is a continuing problem with the transgender extremists.  They not only are out, they make sure everyone knows their history.  They don't attempt to fit in as women...they force their situation in everyone's face.

And that is how some, like Mr. "Cristan" Williams, Mr. "Autumn" Sandeen," Mr. "Dana" Taylor and others want it.  They not only don't care that they are making women uncomfortable, they seem to take delight in it.  And this is just wrong.

When I transitioned, I went to great lengths to make sure that I was not causing a problem in using the women's room.  The thought never occurred to me to see it as an inherent right.  If I had not been able to assimilate, I am not sure what I would have done.  But, I seriously doubt  I would have been able to continue my transition.

Now, we have kooks like Mr. Williams and Mr. Sandeen who go out of their way to not assimilate.  They seem to treasure the shock value of being known as "transgender."  It is the focus of their sad little lives, and if that makes women uncomfortable, they are all the happier, claiming it as some sort of "teaching moment."

I believe it is time for a return to sanity in this area.  If someone is not going to make an effort to actually assimilate as a woman, then they should stay out of women's spaces.  If you have not had surgery, then you should not be in a place where a woman might see you nude.  And if you are told you are making women uncomfortable, then you should take corrective steps to prevent this.  Otherwise....well, you are just acting like man, and a rather nasty one at that.

7 comments:

Elizabeth said...

I have not read anywhere where this transitioned girl was harassing anyone. It seems to have been one very conservative parent(s) that complained and I do not believe the police were brought in and it was bathroom use for a transitioned teenager.

Have we sunk so low we would demand a transitioned MTF kid be required to use the boy's room? If you have proof that something "really" did happen I would really like to read it and although we might agree on many things I disagree with you on this.

Just Jennifer said...

The issue is, this person seems to be making no effort to assimilate as a female. I am not saying that someone transitioning should be forced into the boy's room, but that a reasonable compromise should be made. Obviously, this student's situation is well known in the school, and it is an issue. I don't believe on transgender student's right trumps the rights of others in this way. In fact, I think pressing such a demand raises serious questions about the veracity of the student's claim. If the student really identifies as a female, why does he have so little regard for other females?}

Anoner55 said...

Yup, "Zinnia" has confirmed it for us. He's an autogynephile:

"Fantasies about being dressed as a Catholic schoolgirl during (receptive) sex."

http://zjemptv.tumblr.com/post/64829262029/why-is-it-that-most-trans-people-who-didnt-figure-it

Just Jennifer said...

Ewwwww......

Elizabeth said...

So according to you this child is making NO effort to assimilate as a female!!!!

Those are your words and somehow I missed them which might be good because I would have gone ballistic if I had read them.

That single line says every single thing I need to know about you Jennifer. That little girl knows more about assimilation as a girl than some pretentious lost soul like you.

You really do not have one single clue, do you?

Just Jennifer said...

I made an assumption based on what was said up to that point. I have since backed off to being neutral on the issue. I simply don't have enough information to say what this child's situation is.

At first glance, before I knew more about what was going on, I assumed that this was a situation where the person was very out.

That is what I meant by "no effort to assimilate." This is why one should not make assumptions, and I regret making one there.

That said, I am getting more than a bit tired of you trying to dictate to me how I can, and cannot think. I have said, repeatedly, I respect your right to disagree. I expect nothing less.

You can go ballistic all you want. You are not going to force me into a position I don't agree with. You can insult me all you want, and I won't change my opinion just to suit you.

I am sorry you seem to feel the need to dictate to others. I find it interesting that your behavior is increasingly similar to that of Suzan Cooke. I would hate to see another go that route.

Just Jennifer said...

I made an assumption based on what was said up to that point. I have since backed off to being neutral on the issue. I simply don't have enough information to say what this child's situation is.

At first glance, before I knew more about what was going on, I assumed that this was a situation where the person was very out.

That is what I meant by "no effort to assimilate." This is why one should not make assumptions, and I regret making one there.

That said, I am getting more than a bit tired of you trying to dictate to me how I can, and cannot think. I have said, repeatedly, I respect your right to disagree. I expect nothing less.

You can go ballistic all you want. You are not going to force me into a position I don't agree with. You can insult me all you want, and I won't change my opinion just to suit you.

I am sorry you seem to feel the need to dictate to others. I find it interesting that your behavior is increasingly similar to that of Suzan Cooke. I would hate to see another go that route.