Last night's Family Guy was a terrible episode that was highly inaccurate, and very insulting to transsexuals.
In the episode, Glen Quagmire's father,Dan, a decorated Naval officer, appears to be gay. When Glen confronts his father, he confesses that he is not gay, he is a woman trapped in a man's body. This is followed by several of the characters expressing opinions that basically came down to "what's the difference?" There are also the usual references to "she/males" and such. This was not really refuted.
Then, Dan, who has so far appeared as a male, pops off to the hospital where he has a sex change. Never mind that this is absurd. One does not just go in, and come out looking like a woman. No hormones, no RLT, just off to the OR, and he is a woman. This is followed by playing Glen's confusion of pronouns for laughs, as Glen, now Ida, walks out of the OR, dressed as a female, with quite a nice figure, and a full head of long hair. The doctor having made it sound like "he" had died during surgery, announces that "she" is doing quite well. I can assure you, one does not walk out after such surgery. I was not allowed out of bed for most of a week.
Then Ida visits Peter and family, again with another round of bad jokes. Then Glen and his father fight and Ida goes to a hotel. Finally, Brian who has been away at a web contend seminar, returns stopping at a local hotel for a drink. There he meets Ida, who he falls for. Then, returning home, he talks to Stewie, telling him about having met the perfect woman. Stewie then tells him about Quagmire's father. More bad jokes ensue, including Stewie talking about how it "must be a train wreck down there." Brian is making the usual bad jokes until he discovers that Dan is now Ida. He begins a rather prolonged round of vomiting. Then Brian makes a comment about how when "they move to a new neighborhood they have to notify everyone, that's how it works."
Ida comes back to Glen's house, and in about the only decent part of the show, they make up. There is really not enough here to offset the bad that this show has featured. Ida, who it had previously been suggested, is extremely selfish, pretty much apologizes and excuses Glen's boorish behavior. Then Glen, while hugging Ida, apparently has an erection, saying it can't tell the difference. Then Ida tells Glen about meeting Brian. Glen does not take the news well.
The show ends with Glen brutally beating Brian, who has been in shower, scrubbing furiously as though he feels the need to wash away something horrible. He tells Brian that he will blow his head off if he catches him near his house, and after he finishes, tells him to just lie there and die. The final scene has Quagmire leaving, and Brian at the door saying to him, "I f**ked your father!" The actual word is bleeped out, but it is obvious what was said.
Why such an episode was done, and why this subject was treated so badly, will no doubt be debated online. Already, Bil Browning at Bilerico has written a rather self-righteous article condemning it. Browning, who is gay, really does not have the standing to speak for the transsexual community. I strongly suspect, as word gets out, that other transgender sites will express similar outrage. And all of them will miss the point.
The reason for such ignorance is simple. This is how transgender people present themselves. And they insist on linking their confusion to those who are truly transsexual. How many men, after long successful military careers, suddenly announce they are really women? How many seek to associate gay and transgender? How many transgender types imply that we are really still men? As I say, the truth will be lost on them. Especially the fact that this episode insulted transsexuals specifically, and that most of them have no business saying anything at all.