Once again, the sad and tragic story of Mike Penner, aka Christine Daniels has resurfaced. The June issue of GQ has an analysis of what happened, and why. And, of course, "Autumn" Sandeen has engaged in a self-indulgent story about the whole thing.
Much has been written about Penner, his transition to Christine, his return to presenting as a male, and his suicide. I have written on it myself. But the question of what happened remains.
The more I have read about Penner, the more I have come to wonder if, perhaps, he was the extremely rare example of a true transsexual that manages to hold out for almost fifty years with no real outward signs of gender issues. I don't know much about his life prior to transition.
He claimed to have made the decision in order to survive. That makes me wonder if he was legitimate. On the other hand, he seems to have had a very successful career up to that point, which raises doubts. If one is truly transsexual, the chances of having a successful life as a male or pretty much nil. You might be able to fake it for short periods, but to be successful in a male dominated field like sports writing without facing serious problems seems highly unlikely.
But, if Penner was truly transsexual, then there is less question as to what happened. If he was a true transsexual, then his death can be laid at the feet of the transgender activists who tried to use him.
Penner made a very public transition. If he was truly transsexual, this would have been torture. He would have wanted nothing more than to simply be a woman. But instead, he had to face being publicly paraded about as a trophy for the transgender activists who claimed to be his friend. They could use him, without considering the effects their use had on him.
For most transsexuals, the improvements in their life are the proof that they are transsexual. But most transsexuals do not make public transitions. Transgender types embrace the public. They get what they really seek, to be "women with penises," or "women who were once men," or even "men pretending to be women." Most have no desire to give up their penis, and none have any desire to fully give up their maleness.
So, what if Penner was a true transsexual? If so, he should have been counseled to consider starting over. It would not have been easy. He might have had to walk away from a successful career. At the very least, he might have had to move to another state, to a smaller place, and start over writing something other than sports. It would not have been perfect. He would be taking a risk, and it would require that someone would have to know, but it could have been done.
Or he could have simply left his old life completely behind. He could have done what I did. He could have found an entry level job, downsized his life, and slipped quietly into his new life. But, of course, the transgender community would have none of that. Penner would be their poster child. Unfortunately, he couldn't take it. It was not the life he wanted, even though I am sure they told him it was the only way.
But, of course, the activists and their dupes won't learn. In truth, I doubt they even understand what they should learn. When the next chance comes, they will do it all again. And if that person dies as well? Well, there is nothing the transgender community loves as much as a good martyr.
They just refuse to learn, no matter what the damage.