tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8544621986610962495.post4062138433863088245..comments2023-10-12T08:11:38.983-07:00Comments on Just Jennifer: What's the Difference?Just Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15011627273687180475noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8544621986610962495.post-1625030361014086672013-09-18T20:22:05.476-07:002013-09-18T20:22:05.476-07:00"ungender? Well, that's a new one...
Yo..."ungender? Well, that's a new one...<br /><br />You know, I really don't buy into the magic thinking that says that claiming to identify as something makes you that, so no, I don't respect that, especially in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary.<br /><br />And quite frankly, I don't tell anyone what to think. Then again, I don't generally have to.Just Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15011627273687180475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8544621986610962495.post-17858783975166512752013-09-18T19:49:43.283-07:002013-09-18T19:49:43.283-07:00"Even if I don't agree with what someone ..."Even if I don't agree with what someone writes, I am willing to listen, and try to find common ground."<br /><br />And evidently, ungender them and disrespect their identity entirely.<br /><br />Why should anyone buy that you're a "Real transsexual" and not others exactly? Crystal Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15376115040919554978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8544621986610962495.post-47128481597678110112013-09-12T23:02:02.780-07:002013-09-12T23:02:02.780-07:00To be clear, and for the record, I have tried, rep...To be clear, and for the record, I have tried, repeatedly, to make it clear to Mr. Sandeen that I do <b>NOT</b> with to have physical contact with him, and yet he persists in trying to force this. Again, I will not be bullied into silence by him, but I will also not tolerate his attempts to force me into a physical confrontation. I consider that to be threatening behavior.<br /><br />Mr. Sandeen is an atheist and his attempts to challenge my faith are disingenuous in the extreme.<br /><br />Again, I am not going to have physical contact with him. If he approached me, I would take steps to defend myself, up to and including using non-lethal force. I am not going to meet him alone, or in the presence of anyone. A third party is not necessarily protection.<br /><br />To be clear, if he persists in trying to force an encounter, I will report him to the authorities: <br /><br />SEC. 2. Section 1708.7 of the Civil Code is amended to read:<br />1708.7.<br /><br />A person is liable for the tort of stalking when the plaintiff proves all of the following elements of the tort:<br />The <b>defendant engaged in a pattern of conduct the intent of which was to follow, alarm, or harass the plaintiff</b>. In order to establish this element, the plaintiff shall be required to support his or her allegations with independent corroborating evidence.<br />As a result of that pattern of conduct, the plaintiff reasonably feared for his or her safety, or the safety of an immediate family member. For purposes of this paragraph, "immediate family" means a spouse, parent, child, any person related by consanguinity or affinity within the second degree, or any person who regularly resides, or, within the six months preceding any portion of the pattern of conduct, regularly resided, in the plaintiff's household.<br />One of the following:<br />The defendant, as a part of the pattern of conduct specified in paragraph (1), made a credible threat with the intent to place the plaintiff in reasonable fear for his or her safety, or the safety of an immediate family member and, <b>on at least one occasion, the plaintiff clearly and definitively demanded that the defendant cease and abate his or her pattern of conduct and the defendant persisted in his or her pattern of conduct</b>.Just Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15011627273687180475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8544621986610962495.post-84885493055507279162013-09-12T22:46:39.927-07:002013-09-12T22:46:39.927-07:00Keep writing about me; keep engaging me. And then ...Keep writing about me; keep engaging me. And then tonight, after first engaging me <a href="http://twitter.com/_JustJennifer_/status/378373804939952128" rel="nofollow">in this tweet</a>, following up by telling me I'm stalking you when I wrote I want to have a meeting with you in front of one of your pastors...well, if you don't want my attention, follow the edict of Luke 6:31 and stop writing about me; stop engaging me. <br /><br />Your practice of Christian faith is what I'm addressing. You claim to be a Christian, and you're a lay leader at an affirming church. But then at the same time you tag me in over 130 of your posts, misgender me, and put my first name in scare quotes. <br /><br />Why are you afraid to own that behavior before me and one of your pastors in the brick-and-mortar world? I don't want to meet you alone, I want a third party from the leadership of your church to discuss your behavior in terms of you being a lay leader in an affirming church when you not only aren't affirming me, but are apparently seeking to harm me emotionally.<br /><br />Be brave. Meet me with a third party from your church in the room. Call me "he" and "him" not only online, but in the presence of one of your church's clergy. <br /><br />And just so you know, I never would want to meet you in a room without a third party being in the room. Your daughter called you physically violent -- I wouldn't trust you to not be physically violent with me unless a third party was in the room.Autumn Sandeenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12289590807372899212noreply@blogger.com